Dating??

Mercury conjunct Mc

You’re not imagining it. Everyone is, indeed, smiling at you. Don’t question it, but do be merciful. Smile back. You don’t have to give them your number.–astrology.com

This is an interesting time for me. I have had a lot of experiences in my life that I draw from when I teach and write, but right now I’m having a NEW experience. This may sound silly, but I’m DATING for the first time ever in my life. In the past I didn’t date, I just had one relationship after another. I would meet someone through work or through friends, feel drawn to them, and we would have a relationship. I married the second man I ever had a serious relationship with, at the tender age of 22!

So now, years later, after ending yet another relationship, I find myself dating. This has happened not through my conscious intention, but through the will of Spirit. After my most recent breakup, a number of men started asking to spend time with me. Something has shifted within me, and this is what I’m attracting. What is lovely about it is how centered I feel in my boundaries. I don’t have to give out my number, or my time, or my attention, unless it feels absolutely in alignment for me to do so. Occasionally I have a twinge of missing being in a committed relationship, or I have a moment of worrying that I will be lonely. And then the phone rings. And it rings again. And again. Spirit is really showing me that I can stop worrying about being ALONE. That I don’t need to get love from OUTSIDE, I just need to cultivate it INSIDE. To be honest, I don’t care whether or not I am in a relationship. I know that eventually I will be in relationship again, because that is my path in this life, and because Spirit has shown me this destiny in a trance journey. But I’m not in a hurry.