What a Thrill!
by Kypris
March 10th, 2010
A relationship with you is never easy to predict — or dull. Right now, the twists and turns you’re providing in the road the two of you are on together should be of the thrilling and wonderful kind! –astrology.com
The only way for me to navigate twists and turns is in total trust and safety. When I am riding with my beloved in his 4WD on dirt roads, all I do is laugh in sheer delight at the bumps and twists, because I know with him I am utterly SAFE. I am safe because I totally trust him. Our life journey together so far is the same. Whether it is our relationships with other lovers or our sacred sex practice or our choices about living, I just keep laughing in delight and ECSTASY as it unfolds.
My fear is so small in this relationship that I can let go of the need to be the predictable, reliable, stable, loyal one. I am FREE to be who I am because he trusts me. That trust didn’t happen overnight, we spent some time building it in the beginning. But now that we have it, it is allowing me to fly higher and take more risks than ever before. I never realized before how much energy I was spending trying to be safe and changing my behavior to keep my partner happy. Feeling safe with each other lets us joyfully twist and turn down the road together. And trust me, the ride is definitely a thrill!
