My Daily True Love Horoscopes


Kypris This is where I get real about my adventures in love

The spiritual search for True Love has become the center of my teaching and my life. This blog is an experiment in transparency. To let Spirit guide my writing, I’ll be blogging every day in response to my personalized daily horoscope (courtesy of astrology.com).

Every day I will be writing about the reality of my love life, not some sugar-coated version where I am perfect. I’m not! I’m both a dedicated spiritual teacher as well as a human woman with many flaws that get in the way of a life filled with happiness and freedom. My hope is that others might learn from my own journey through the fields, forests, and deserts of love.

What is true love? In my definition it is a relationship that has trust, ease, unconditional love, and passion in it. It could be a romantic relationship or a friendship (passion isn’t always about sex, is it?). But above all? It’s a COMPLETE relationship.

My current love status is…complicated. For now the best way of summarizing it is to say that I’m in love. Is it True Love? It’s still too early to tell.

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What a Thrill!

March 10th, 2010 by Kypris
Daily Couples Horoscope

A relationship with you is never easy to predict — or dull. Right now, the twists and turns you’re providing in the road the two of you are on together should be of the thrilling and wonderful kind! –astrology.com

The only way for me to navigate twists and turns is in total trust and safety. When I am riding with my beloved in his 4WD on dirt roads, all I do is laugh in sheer delight at the bumps and twists, because I know with him I am utterly SAFE. I am safe because I totally trust him. Our life journey together so far is the same. Whether it is our relationships with other lovers or our sacred sex practice or our choices about living, I just keep laughing in delight and ECSTASY as it unfolds.

My fear is so small in this relationship that I can let go of the need to be the predictable, reliable, stable, loyal one. I am FREE to be who I am because he trusts me. That trust didn’t happen overnight, we spent some time building it in the beginning. But now that we have it, it is allowing me to fly higher and take more risks than ever before. I never realized before how much energy I was spending trying to be safe and changing my behavior to keep my partner happy. Feeling safe with each other lets us joyfully twist and turn down the road together. And trust me, the ride is definitely a thrill!

Hyperawareness

March 9th, 2010 by Kypris
Jupiter Opposition Asc

You’re quite focused on one particular area of your life now — the corner that houses your behavior in one-on-one relationships. Fortunately, things look pretty good in that department, and it’s easy to see how you might already know that. Carry on.–astrology.com

I spent the weekend in hyperawareness mode, spending time rooting out the unhealthy patterns in my relating to myself and others. I woke up Saturday feeling a little sad and couldn’t quite tell why. I didn’t feel jealous of my beloved spending time with another lover, but I felt this obsession kicking up about talking with him. It seemed a little out of proportion.

Like a miner searching for gold, I went excavating. I journaled, I read some of my favorite spiritual books about healthy relationship, and I talked to a trusted mentor. I found quickly that although I missed my beloved a bit, I was really mostly sad about some changes in my relationship with my son, and wanting contact with my beloved to push those feelings away. I love that when we did talk, I was able to simply share my sadness, and he could support me in staying with moving through it. By Saturday afternoon I was right as rain and ready to enjoy my weekend of time alone. Ahhhhh.

Lucky in Love

March 5th, 2010 by Kypris
Mercury Conjunct Jupiter

Talk about lucky! There’s absolutely no way you can go wrong. Now, this doesn’t automatically give you that reason you’ve been looking for to hop on a flight for Vegas — but it sure isn’t a bad omen. Intelligent, well-calculated risks are definitely the order of the day. –astrology.com

Last night I talked with my beloved on the phone, and I just felt my heart melting. We have landed in this new and amazing place of deeper love with each other, and I just can’t seem to stop smiling. After we talked I fell asleep feeling him holding me and my heart was like a blazing cold fire. My cat, not normally a cuddler, snuggled in to me too, he wanted some of that beautiful energy! Out on my walk today, I still felt it. I was smiling at people like crazy, and they were smiling and waving back.

I AM lucky, there is no doubt about that. I love the way my beloved is cherishing me right now with his words and his actions. Finding him has been like finding my match. All these years of my life I’ve been dating and marrying pretty unconsciously. This feels like the first relationship that I’ve had where I’ve stayed completely in reality about who the other person is. As I am getting to know this man better, I feel not only love and trust and enjoyment in his company, but also an overwhelming LIKE for him. If we weren’t in love with each other, I would want to be his best friend for life. Yep, I’m not in Vegas, but I’ve definitely won the boyfriend lottery.

Time Alone

March 4th, 2010 by Kypris
Mercury Trine Moon

After an especially hectic period, it’s high time you spent some quality time alone with you. Tend to your nest, order some take-out and soak your poor tired feet.

Because my beloved and I live in different cities about 2.5 hours apart, I have built-in time to come back to my center. Sometimes it’s hard to see the beauty in that because I miss him when we are apart. Two wise women friends suggested that it might help to keep my heart spiritually connected, and still continue my practice of disconnecting all the other cords between us. I decided to try it out over this last weekend. I noticed that I became much more loving when we were together, and that now while we are apart, I still feel so much love, even though he isn’t with me. Not only do I feel more love for him than ever before, but I feel love for everyone and everything that is radiating out from my keeping heart connection to him.

So yesterday while I was looking at a photo of us from our blissful weekend, my beloved sent me a beautiful loving text message, and I realized I hadn’t even missed him yet, was just loving him. And reading his message just amplified the love I was already feeling. I flowed with that love into a whole evening of pampering myself, and it felt good after traveling and playing so much to anchor into being taking a hot bath, putting on my pj’s, reading a book, and spending some quality time with my closest girlfriends. This morning, waking up alone, I had the luxury of time to go on a shamanic healing journey, and then walk through the garden smelling the orange blossoms. What a delight.

Never Settle

March 3rd, 2010 by Kypris
Sun Opposition Pluto

There’s absolutely no way you’ll be willing to settle for anything less than exactly what you want right now, and you’ll happily dismiss anyone who tries to talk you into negotiating.–astrology.com

Yesterday my heart felt so huge and glowing—a bliss high from my weekend. Today I still feel the glow, but it’s coming from knowing I am living the life of my dreams, from deciding not to settle for anything less than what I want in in my life, including my relationships. This isn’t how they tell us love works. They tell us that you meet someone and magickally fall in love. My experience is that when I have an irresistible attraction to someone, that the attraction often masks many incompatibilities, and leads to me losing my sense of what is right for me.

I’m having a really different experience right now of watching my relationship with my beloved grow slowly and gently, in stages. At each stage I gently stop and look to see whether this is still working for me. Is it what I want? And more important, is it what Spirit wants for me? So far the answer is a resounding YES. It feels good to know that never again will I settle for less than a full expression of the love I know I can create with another.

Wild Hearts

March 2nd, 2010 by Kypris
Pluto Sextile Moon

Better warn anyone who blushes easily to stand back and keep their eyes closed. You won’t hold yourself back — not from speaking your mind, and certainly not from acting on what’s in your heart. Expect to raise a few eyebrows — and at least one individual’s body temperature — in the process.–astrology.com

This weekend I spent four days in Mexico with my beloved, and with a community of beautiful loving people. We soaked in natural hot water springs with clothing completely optional. This was perhaps the first time I have let my beloved truly see both my wildness and my vulnerability. And he didn’t run away!

My heart stayed open as he explored connections with new women who might become lovers. I was so happy that I was able to enjoy watching him connect and create more love without sitting in a place of fear and jealousy. When fear came up, I was able to be vulnerable, to practice voicing it. He responded to me by holding me, sharing back with me, and telling me how wonderful I was. The best part was how he kept showing me the humor in all of it.

Oh what a gift it is to go deeper with my beloved and find that he and I can laugh at our fears together, that we can move through them to find the sweetness and joy of life!

Ease and Grace

February 25th, 2010 by Kypris
Pluto Trine Uranus

You know how ‘they’ say that seeing is believing? That’s not always true, especially with this particular combination of these two planets. As always, you’ll be better off trusting your instincts and your perceptive abilities…go with your gut.–astrology.com

My beloved and I are headed off for a long relaxing weekend at a hot springs with a group of dear friends. I am very excited about my loved ones having a chance to get to know my beloved better. I know it’s important for me to let go of how he gets along with my friends or how they get along with him. But these are more than friends, some of these people are part of my created family, the closest thing to blood kin I have.

I am also a bit nervous about how it will be for him to see me with my other lover. Not that I am planning to run off with my lover and abandon my beloved, but it can be tricky navigating open relationships and keeping everyone feeling safe and loved. This will be new territory for us as a couple. I know this will be a time to not trust appearances, or to judge. This will be a time to hold my highest intentions for ease, grace, and love. This will be time to keep the lines of communication open. And to keep the warm water flowing…

Deep and Meaningful

February 24th, 2010 by Kypris
Sun Trine Moon

You love to look for a deeper, philosophical meaning — perhaps especially when it comes to your relationship — but something you’re trying to delve deeply into now may actually be quite simple. –astrology.com

Over the weekend I spent a lot of time in deep conversation with my beloved. There were important things to share and discuss. Some of our conversations were about my tendency to try to make meaning out of every little action my beloved takes. We are still fairly new to each other, and I think we are both still learning which things have meaning when the other person does them, and which are really unrelated to anything.

What I’m learning is this: don’t assume something has a deeper meaning unless he tells me that it does. Sometimes a bird in the sky is just a bird, not an omen or a portent of anything. Sometimes the best thing to do is to let my heart lift at watching the bird soar.

Lucky

February 23rd, 2010 by Kypris
Venus Trine Neptune

You can buy a lucky horseshoe or toss a coin in the wishing well, but you really don’t have to. Luck is on your side already, and there’ll be no turning it away—astrology.com

My horoscope tells me that today is lucky for me, and I’m feeling it! I’m just back in town after spending several beautiful days with my sweetheart, and having several questions about our connection resolved in my mind with more ease than I thought was possible. I am appreciating him so much today for his courage in being transparent with me about his life and his feelings, and about the way he can hold space for my fears and feelings without running away. He does it with so much love and humor that I am usually laughing and smiling at the end of it all. That’s a first for me.

The ease of it all hinges on freedom. Because we are a bit geographically distant, I get to practice letting go and trusting him over and over. I haven’t been disappointed yet. Just today I heard someone say: “when we keep someone else prisoner, we imprison ourselves”. This is what I have always done before, and this is what I am learning not to do. Instead I toss a coin in the wishing well and trust Spirit to take care of me.

Reunion

February 22nd, 2010 by Kypris
Venus Sextile Mercury

You’re not interested in flirting, or being flirted with, unless the individual in question has been preapproved and found worthy by a very particular panel of one. You go!–astrology.com

I’ve been having a wonderful reunion with my beloved. At his birthday party a few days ago I did have a lot of attention from many of his male friends, but I really only had interest in my beloved. I like the clear pure feeling I have in my heart when we’re together. I want to leave space to explore that. I notice too how different it feels to spend time with him from my new perspective of letting go of expectations and neediness.

I’m learning now that demanding love and thinking I can only get it from one source doesn’t work. It puts the other person in a position where their choices are to either control me through my needs or to be repulsed by them. I notice that when I let go, I actually get a lot more of what I want. It frees them to love me more.

 

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