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Yabyummy.com was created by Kypris and Steven as a vehicle for teaching people about the joy and ecstasy of lovemaking. They have been working together to consciously explore every aspect of intimacy and relationship. Kypris and Steven have a strong desire to transmit their shared knowledge and wisdom to a world where sexuality is largely ignored or reviled.

What Makes Love Unconditional?

February 25th, 2010 by Kypris

In earlier parts of this True Love blog series, I shared with you my thoughts and experience of True Love, Safety and Trust, and Ease. In this blog, I’d like to share with you about my experience of the third step up on the true love pyramid: Unconditional Love. (more…)

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Embracing Ease

January 26th, 2010 by Kypris

In part one and two of this series, I shared with you about my perception of what true love is, and about safety and trust, the foundation of true love. In this blog, I’d like to share with you about my experience of the next step up on the true love pyramid: freedom and ease. (more…)

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The Dance: An Erotic Story

December 14th, 2009 by Kypris

My lover and I are dancing, and I feel that swirl of connection and love that I always feel when we are together. He is strong, and dips and twirls me so that my body melts and I surrender completely to the motion. As I surrender and let him lead me in the movement, I begin to feel arousal shoot down to my pelvis from my heart, and I imagine all the things that might come after the dance. He smiles, seeing my face, feeling the fire that’s burning through me from below, and he holds me a little tighter. Sexual force begins to rise up into my eyes, engulf ing me in waves of passion and desire for him. (more…)

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How Do I Trust?

November 3rd, 2009 by Kypris

In part one of this series, I shared with you about my perception of what true love is, and the four components of true love. In this blog, I’d like to tell you more about the foundation of the true love pyramid: trust and safety. (more…)

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What is True Love?

September 30th, 2009 by Kypris

In my journey along the tantric path, I have spent a lot of time exploring love–what it is and what it isn’t. In my own life I have found that the most important thing about true love, is that it covers all the bases–it is a love that contains all the aspects of romantic relationship that I need to have a whole and complete partnership with another person. (more…)

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Inviting Love In

August 13th, 2009 by Kypris

How many of you have heard that to attract the love that you want in your life, you have to love yourself first? (more…)

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Under the Peruvian Sun

July 8th, 2009 by Kypris

I am riding on the back of Inti, a sturdy brown and white mountain pony, across beautiful tan grass plains amongst tall sharp mountain peaks. (more…)

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A Day In The Life Of A Tantric Shaman

June 3rd, 2009 by Kypris

(yesterday)

I wake up from a fitful night’s sleep, glad that it is time to get up and begin my day. While still half-awake, I feel into my dreams to see if there is anything important there, but the dreamscape is silent. (more…)

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Divine Desert Union

April 15th, 2009 by Kypris

I am in the desert, about to enter into a day of divine union practice with my partner. About to dive into the ultimate sacred sexual ceremony. About to enter deeply into ecstatic sexual communion with my beloved. About to become the Goddess, opening to oneness with God through my lover and the ecstasy and power and love we would create. (more…)

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Kiss and Tell

March 9th, 2009 by Kypris

When I was four years old, my kindergarten teacher caught me kissing one of my classmates behind the bushes on our playground. (more…)

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Kypris Drake, M.S., M.A. at kypris@yabyummy.com or 760 522-2554
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