Comments on: Self Pleasure Ritual (Women)

By: Kypris

Kypris — Wed, 21 Dec 2011 09:42:20 +0000

Hi there,

It sounds like there is some healing for you to do, and to explore that further my book might be of help to you. It’s written as a self study guide to healing your sexuality and has many solo exercises to help with exploring what is blocking you. You can find it here: http://www.yabyummy.com/store/books/journey-to-sexual-wholeness.htm. Please let me know how it all turns out or if I can support you further. Namaste, Kypris

By: ET

ET — Thu, 15 Dec 2011 02:22:51 +0000

Kypris,
I found your article when trying to find some help. I really enjoyed it and wonder if you can offer some specific advice for me. I seem to go in and out of interest in self pleasure but lately I have been experiencing something very peculiar. My mind is interested, but my emotions and body feel blocked. When I breath into my heart I just feel pain, and then when I think about self pleasuring it feels almost as if I loath myself. I also feel lately like I have lost any connection to anything “divine”. I feel like there is an answer here somewhere. I would appreciate your thoughts.

Thanks for the article and any thoughts you care to share!

By: Maya

Maya — Fri, 21 Oct 2011 21:58:58 +0000

Simply beautiful, thank you dear Goddess Kypris for your courage and creavity to bring this forward and share this with so many of us that have forgotten how to truly connect with our beings. I have practiced meditation daily for a year and a half now and have had many profound spiritual experiences but have never quite managed to integrate my spiritual connection into my sexual experiences. Dedicating the time this evening to gifting myself with this ritual has not only aided me to dissolve some blockages that have accumulated over time around my heart and sacral chakras but to really feel Spirit in myself and myself in Spirit. As I lay there I felt the stars, infinite and shining above and the crystal core pulsating below me and how infinitely we are all connected.. it felt like coming home. My love and deepest gratitude to you x

By: Althea

Althea — Sat, 19 Feb 2011 07:03:29 +0000

I have always felt very guilty about self pleasuring. I discovered it at a very early age when my mother caught me touching myself. I was too young to really know what I was doing but my mother’s reaction alone spoke volumes.This combined with a religious background always caused me tremendous guilt.The teaching of sex and pleasure outside of marriage was so damaging to me.I am not married. My mind tells me that as a single woman I too have the right to experience pleasure but I cannot overcome the whole guilt thing completely.
I want to be able to truly rejoice in my body and the pleasure it gives me but how does one completely ‘let go’ of these misconceptions and be more fully alive? I still self pleasure and have for years but I still feel guilt.Your self pleasure ritual is very good and affirming.But how do you get rid of years of guilt around this whole issue? I would appreciate your comments.

By: Kypris

Kypris — Wed, 20 Oct 2010 00:42:00 +0000

Hi Julie, thanks for your honest sharing. One of the things that has really helped me heal around my masturbation practice is to consciously take on a SPIRITUAL masturbation practice. It starts just with setting the intention to offer up masturbation as a sacred act to the divine, and a sacred gift to myself. One thing that might help you with making this shift is to learn to give yourself a yoni massage. While this is a different kind of healing than a yoni massage given by your beloved or by a sexual healer, it is still very powerful. If you want to learn more about how to do this, what I suggest is to work with the yoni massage video, but convert it to a practice you are doing on yourself. Please let me know if you have any more questions about how you might do that. You can find the video here: http://www.yabyummy.com/store/videos/tantric-massage-and-yoni-massage.htm

By: Julie

Julie — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 19:00:27 +0000

I used to really enjoy masterbation and always felt really good and comfortable connecting with myself. Then 3 years ago I found out that my husband had an affair with some one at work, we have worked through this and have come out stronger as a couple but I now find it really hard to masterbate unless I think about them having sex and when we have sex I will only orgasm if I do it myself. I really need and want us to get back to the place where I don’t control all the emotion related to my yoni.

By: Kypris

Kypris — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 22:12:56 +0000

Dear Ten,

Self Pleasuring to pronography isn’t “wrong”, it’s just another way of doing it. There is great joy to be had in masturbating to visuals of beautiful women. The type of self pleasuring I am describing here is just a different approach that allows you to explore the deep spiritual aspects of your sexuality. Sacred Sexual Self Pleasure has the potential to lead you into multiple orgasms, whole body orgasms, and deep spiritual bliss. To learn more about these states and practices, a great resource is my book, which was written as a self-study guide. You can find it here and order as a download or print book: http://www.yabyummy.com/store/books/journey-to-sexual-wholeness.htm

By: Ten

Ten — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 20:52:17 +0000

I am a male, what I do when I do this is just think about (and I don’t want this to sound barbaric because you seem like a sophisticated woman)pornogrophy I’ve watched in the past, is this wrong ?

By: christina

christina — Tue, 24 Aug 2010 05:32:56 +0000

Woah I am still young but I was really impressed , I don’t really masturbate that often but this ritual made me look at masturbation in a whole different way .

thanks for that

By: Sandra

Sandra — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 21:40:07 +0000

All I Have To Say Is That It Really Works