Comments on: Yoni Massage http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm Yabyummy, unifying sexuality with spirituality and spirituality with sexuality Wed, 21 Jul 2010 19:21:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Ravi http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1933 Ravi Thu, 01 Jul 2010 04:10:26 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-1933 Namaste! It's a very informative site. Though sex should be avoided immediately after the yoni puja/yoni massage, after a gap of one hour it can be had. Especially, if the goddess wants it, how can sex be denied to her, when the whole ritual has aroused her completely? What I have learn is that any desire of the goddess has to be fulfilled, as she is the very embodiment of Goddess/ Shakti after the Yoni puja (even otherwise, she is). For an adept in tantric practice, sexual union at that stage will help in raising kunalini as the male and female energies complete the circuit. With Love from Toronto........ Namaste!
It’s a very informative site.
Though sex should be avoided immediately after the yoni puja/yoni massage, after a gap of one hour it can be had. Especially, if the goddess wants it, how can sex be denied to her, when the whole ritual has aroused her completely? What I have learn is that any desire of the goddess has to be fulfilled, as she is the very embodiment of Goddess/ Shakti after the Yoni puja (even otherwise, she is). For an adept in tantric practice, sexual union at that stage will help in raising kunalini as the male and female energies complete the circuit.
With Love from Toronto……..

]]> By: ashley http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1921 ashley Sun, 27 Jun 2010 08:01:37 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-1921 hi i live in toronto could you reccommend a tantric massage for a very nervous and scared beginner here. also could you give my email out to someone you know who has tried it and is a women who i can talk to or make friends with and perhaps go with at some point in time. Thanks Kypris Ashley i can be reached at work 416 212 5220 hi
i live in toronto could you reccommend a tantric massage for a very nervous and scared beginner here.

also could you give my email out to someone you know who has tried it and is a women who i can talk to or make friends with and perhaps go with at some point in time.

Thanks Kypris
Ashley
i can be reached at work 416 212 5220

]]> By: Nyebirweki Tom http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1760 Nyebirweki Tom Sun, 28 Mar 2010 11:23:02 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-1760 Steven Jay, This is excellent. It is like contemplation--I wish many people knew about this yoni massage. There are lots of hurt women out there who do not know how to deal with their past negative sexual experiences. One question though: when the sacred spot is messaged by the middle finger, doesn't this lead to orgasm eventually? Steven Jay,
This is excellent. It is like contemplation–I wish many people knew about this yoni massage. There are lots of hurt women out there who do not know how to deal with their past negative sexual experiences. One question though: when the sacred spot is messaged by the middle finger, doesn’t this lead to orgasm eventually?

]]> By: Kypris http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1536 Kypris Thu, 03 Dec 2009 19:16:18 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-1536 Dear Mandy, When a woman has a history of sexual trauma or abuse, as your friend does, a yoni massage is not something to approach lightly. I would suggest that she first focus on the emotional healing work, and establish a spiritual practice. Our free women's ecourse or my book "Journey to Sexual Wholeness" (http://www.yabyummy.com/store/books/journey-to-sexual-wholeness.htm) would be better places to begin. Yoni massage would be something to look at much further down the road, in my opinion. Dear Mandy,

When a woman has a history of sexual trauma or abuse, as your friend does, a yoni massage is not something to approach lightly. I would suggest that she first focus on the emotional healing work, and establish a spiritual practice. Our free women’s ecourse or my book “Journey to Sexual Wholeness” (http://www.yabyummy.com/store/books/journey-to-sexual-wholeness.htm) would be better places to begin. Yoni massage would be something to look at much further down the road, in my opinion.

]]> By: Mandy http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1524 Mandy Thu, 26 Nov 2009 01:09:32 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-1524 hey I was wondering what the age is to having this done. My friend was raped and is learning to trust men again and I thought maybe if she could have tantric massage and feel more comfortable. She liked the idea but is nervous. hey
I was wondering what the age is to having this done. My friend was raped and is learning to trust men again and I thought maybe if she could have tantric massage and feel more comfortable. She liked the idea but is nervous.

]]> By: Chandrakant Kulkarni http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-1000 Chandrakant Kulkarni Mon, 23 Mar 2009 16:40:02 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-1000 Namaste ! A woman is gifted with a multitude of divine Lotus flowers :Netra-Kamal (eyes-lotus), Oshtha Kamal (lips), Stana (breasts), Naabhi (navel) and Yoni- Kamal. These Lotus flowers are mysteriously linked with each other : for example, Aalochaka Pitta in eyes has to be passified and soothened with a soft & cool kiss + a cottom swab dipped into Rose Water massaging an eye from Apaang to Kaneenika Marmas (= tapering points of an eye) +'palmimg' the eye;prior to going for further Lotus zones... I may quote here lines from "Shringaar- Shataka" by Raja Bhatruhari.. "A day-lotus blooms in morning and closes its petals in evening. A might-lotus blooms in evening and becomes silent by closing its lip-petals in at dawn. But a woman's Yoni-Lotus remains open forever...may it be a day, or night!" Thank you! Chandrakant. Namaste !
A woman is gifted with a multitude of divine Lotus flowers :Netra-Kamal (eyes-lotus), Oshtha Kamal (lips), Stana (breasts), Naabhi (navel) and Yoni- Kamal. These Lotus flowers are mysteriously linked with each other : for example, Aalochaka Pitta in eyes has to be passified and soothened with a soft & cool kiss + a cottom swab dipped into Rose Water massaging an eye from Apaang to Kaneenika Marmas (= tapering points of an eye) +’palmimg’ the eye;prior to going for further Lotus zones…
I may quote here lines from “Shringaar- Shataka” by Raja Bhatruhari..
“A day-lotus blooms in morning and closes its petals in evening. A might-lotus blooms in evening and becomes silent by closing its lip-petals in at dawn. But a woman’s Yoni-Lotus remains open forever…may it be a day, or night!”

Thank you!
Chandrakant.

]]> By: greeshamam http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-862 greeshamam Thu, 27 Nov 2008 10:49:18 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-862 very nice site very nice site

]]> By: Steven Jay http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-814 Steven Jay Tue, 28 Oct 2008 01:15:32 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-814 Hi Flo, One important part of the yoni massage is learning to be in the moment with sensual touch without a need for any goals. This allows the magic to move into you. Many different feeling can come up during the massage, some very pleasurable some more painful. Staying to long in the pleasurable feelings is often as scary as going to the more challenging feelings. I have heard from a lot of people "What do I do with all this energy?" this is unfamiliar and that is scary. One benefit of working through this is that you learn to be bigger energetically, over time this leads to much more pleasure in the body. Pleasure that is unimaginable until you let go of that need to "satisfy" it. One practical suggestion might be to practice the ritual in the morning. During the day, she can play with using this energy in a different way, she might want to journal or do a creative project, or get some exercise. Sexual energy is life force energy is creative energy. It is all the same, we just put different labels on it depending on the situation. So taking that sexual energy built up in her body and playing with it creatively. The magic is that it doesn't go away when you use it this way, you just get bigger to hold it. In the evening if you still wish make love that is perfect. As for dangers, the yoni is in a very vulnerable state after a yoni massage. You may have worked through pain or emotions during the massage. The yoni needs time to integrate this. Love making right after the massage shifts the energy and takes her out of a place of being with herself to a place of connecting and giving to her husband. Please let me know if there is anything else I can help with Namaste Steven Jay Hi Flo,

One important part of the yoni massage is learning to be in the moment with sensual touch without a need for any goals. This allows the magic to move into you. Many different feeling can come up during the massage, some very pleasurable some more painful. Staying to long in the pleasurable feelings is often as scary as going to the more challenging feelings. I have heard from a lot of people “What do I do with all this energy?” this is unfamiliar and that is scary.

One benefit of working through this is that you learn to be bigger energetically, over time this leads to much more pleasure in the body. Pleasure that is unimaginable until you let go of that need to “satisfy” it.

One practical suggestion might be to practice the ritual in the morning. During the day, she can play with using this energy in a different way, she might want to journal or do a creative project, or get some exercise. Sexual energy is life force energy is creative energy. It is all the same, we just put different labels on it depending on the situation. So taking that sexual energy built up in her body and playing with it creatively. The magic is that it doesn’t go away when you use it this way, you just get bigger to hold it. In the evening if you still wish make love that is perfect.

As for dangers, the yoni is in a very vulnerable state after a yoni massage. You may have worked through pain or emotions during the massage. The yoni needs time to integrate this. Love making right after the massage shifts the energy and takes her out of a place of being with herself to a place of connecting and giving to her husband.

Please let me know if there is anything else I can help with
Namaste
Steven Jay

]]> By: FLO http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-808 FLO Fri, 24 Oct 2008 14:04:41 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-808 Hi, My question has to do with the after effects of the yoni massage. My wife just won't take no for an answer when it comes to the lovemaking part. I tell her to just take in the feelings and emotions, but she says she feels too aroused to go to sleep unsatisfied. What are the dangers and how shall one handle this? Thanks F Hi,
My question has to do with the after effects of the yoni massage. My wife just won’t take no for an answer when it comes to the lovemaking part. I tell her to just take in the feelings and emotions, but she says she feels too aroused to go to sleep unsatisfied.
What are the dangers and how shall one handle this?

Thanks
F

]]> By: Steven Jay http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm/comment-page-1#comment-757 Steven Jay Thu, 25 Sep 2008 18:30:15 +0000 http://www.yabyummy.com/rituals/yoni_massage.htm#comment-757 Hi Sally, Those are complicated questions and for the most part ones that you need to work out between you and your boyfriend. Yoni massage is a very intimate healing ritual and therefor often shared between a loving couple. On the other hand being able to offer this gift to women who don't have a partner that is willing or able to hold the sacredness of the healing ritual is also beautiful. For example a women's partner may be to close and to attached to the emotions that come up to be able to hold the healing space that is needed. I am sorry if this adds more questions then it answers. Good luck on your journey. Namaste Steven Jay Hi Sally,

Those are complicated questions and for the most part ones that you need to work out between you and your boyfriend. Yoni massage is a very intimate healing ritual and therefor often shared between a loving couple. On the other hand being able to offer this gift to women who don’t have a partner that is willing or able to hold the sacredness of the healing ritual is also beautiful. For example a women’s partner may be to close and to attached to the emotions that come up to be able to hold the healing space that is needed.

I am sorry if this adds more questions then it answers. Good luck on your journey.

Namaste
Steven Jay

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