We had our first opportunity to try the massage ritual 2 weeks ago. As my wife and I are not what I would describe as “spiritual” people and we both tend to let out minds run away with us, we just concentrated solely on the breathing and being present in the current moment. Of course, I also took your advice and set the stage thoroughly, creating a very nice space for us. We had a very nice night and my wife enjoyed the massage very much. I was amazed at how much I enjoyed giving her the massage. I expected to feel good about making her feel good, but did not expect to feel so much personal physical pleasure just from the giving of the massage. For me, that was the most powerful revelation. For my wife, she initially struggled with the idea that there was no expectation of reciprocation, but once I described to her how good it felt for me, she easily relaxed into her body and enjoyed the massage. Overall, it was a huge success.

We repeated part of the ritual a week later and once again it was very nice. This time, we got a little too “goal oriented” in the middle so we didn’t spend as much time with it. I can see now that we should have waited a little longer before attempting to recapture what we had the first time. Still, we’re already seeing the benefits of just setting aside the time and placing our focus squarely on each other and the moment.

Here’s something we found very interesting. On both occasions, we did end up moving on to attempts to bring her to orgasm (at her urging), but failed both times. During the massages, my wife feels the little tingles and chills running through her body like what you describe as “mini-orgasms” in the video and that really seems to increase her desire. But once we actually set out to give her a full orgasm, we’re not able to get her there. She finds herself “riding on the edge”. What we found particularly interesting during these two times practicing the ritual was that faillure to reach the orgasm for her didn’t seem to matter. In fact, after all was said and done this last time, my wife said she felt as if she had had an orgasm. Maybe that’s a sign that we’re starting to be able to let go of the “goals” and be more in the moment and involved in our connection rather than just the sex.

Your video has already been a huge help in our lives and I can imagine this ritual and others like it being regular events for us forever.

Namaste, Kypris

I’m sorry, but I don’t know of any teachers offering tantra or yoni massage instruction in your area. Our video is designed to support students who do not have access to a teacher, and takes you step-by-step through the sacred yoni massage ritual. You may also be interested in our book, “Journey to Sexual Wholeness” which contains a complete system of self-study for both solo and partnered students.

Namaste,

Kypris

reagrds,
rajesh

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Namaste, Kypris

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