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Steven Dr. Steven Jay is a native of New Jersey who traveled to the land of California to become a scientist, meditator, and deep student of sacred relationship. He connects to Spirit through his body, his hands drawing strength from the rock he loves to climb, his feet anchoring him to the mountains, deserts, and beaches of California, and his heart connecting him to his tantric partner.

Steeped in physics by his Ph.D. training, he began years ago to use the scientific method of hypothesis and experiment to trailblaze a new path to sacred relationship and sexuality, combining his many years of experience of Zen Buddhism, the Alexander method, and nature to create sexual healing practices that produce repeatable results for his students. He has spent the last several years in a spiritually-based intimate relationship with Kypris, walking the path of tantric lovemaking and conscious relationship as a sacred practice. He continues to deepen his learning about love and intimacy through all of his practices, as well as through being an ongoing student of life and relationship. Steven lives in the heart of San Diego, close to the manmade forest of Balboa Park.

I invite you to explore our Private Services pages and Upcoming Events for more information on how I can be of service. If you would like some help deciding which of the options is best for you please feel free to give me a call.

energytalkradioTo learn more join radio show hosts Dr. Steven Jay and Kypris Aster Drake on their show Sex, Love, and Spirit at Energy Talk Radio.

To enroll in a private intensive or , fill out our questionnaire, send email to steven@yabyummy.com, or call 619 321-8599.

Testimonials


Steven~ Words cannot describe how I feel or convey my deep gratitude. I feel I had some of the most powerful therapy/healing/opening of my life during my time with you. I send you much love and I will be in contact again very soon. I have been deeply integrating, resting, and moving in my daily life in a different way.
Beautiful Blessings of the Full Moon to you
love ~Mekare

-- Mekare

Steven-

I can not possibly tell you how much the work we did yesterday means to me. There were so many past obstacles that we tackled, almost effortlessly. Dancing, playing, touching you in the way I wanted to, really wanting to make love and also doing so in a new way, staying open and loving the entire time. A month ago all of these things were such a struggle. Today I cried feeling so much joy radiating from every part of me that it came spilling out in my smile, song, movement, and laughter. I’m not afraid. I understand what it can be now.

-- Cidny

I am glowing. The world is different today and I am breathing in the breeze, the sounds, the life. My fluffy white throw blanket feels softer than ever. The lentil tortilla soup I made last night when I got home smelled so spicy and warm and its the first time I looked at food as a blessing from the earth and not something for which I must have willpower over.

I’m off now to my girlfriend’s for SND (Saturday Night Dinner). Once a month we host a dinner where all of us bring new friends as a way of sharing our great connection with each other. I can’t wait to share this joy that is radiating from me.

Thank you again.
Namaste

-- Cidny

I feel renewed!! My sexuality is intact. I was so distressed at my responses to the sexual pain I felt. Really, “not felt… More like numbness and heaviness”. You and Kypris together assisted me on my request to spirit … to move and open me again. I love you both deeply for having the courage to brave this socially difficult path to pursue your pleasure and soul work. Namaste

-- Susan S

You helped me tremendously with awareness of my needs regarding not only my sexuality blending harmoniously with my spirituality, but with my awareness of how much I miss having a life partner. I love you Steven, you are an amazing most precious man! Thank you for everything!!!

-- Melissa P

[...] Steven Jay, tantra teacher, daka, somatic/spirit entrepreneur, closet genius and sensual guru guided me through this, my second red session and journey on the tantra path. As usual he greeted me with a whole-body, deep breathing embrace that works like magnetic lava in keeping me grounded and helping me feel safe. He led me to a warm red room bejeweled with candlelight and infused with healing intentions. Steven is one of the most intuitive men I’ve ever met, and he has a keen knack for sensing where your gateways and boundaries are. Because of my prior experiences with him, I was not the least bit nervous. [...]

-- The Gift of Yoni Massage

I had an enhanced experience,it was a Pleasure to experience my freed up fire within,hope to have future good fortune & the letting out of the fire within! With reverence Sandra

-- Sandra Katz

Steven, The yoni massage red session was beautiful and intense and something my yoni really, really craved and needed. You are so gifted and I feel so blessed to know you. If I had my wish, I’d wish every woman in the world could have a personal Steven Jay in her life. :)

-- Joy

After the Violet session, I continue working with Steven personally. Steven is an amazing man, who can hold a very sensuous space from a masculine stand point with all the respect to the feminine. He is an exceptional lover and a teacher, who knows how to take women over the edge from the point of empowerment. I personally think that women who are in sensual profession, such as erotic masseuses, escorts, and companions can enhance their professional well-being by heightening their personal sensuality first. They can connect with their clients deeper, serve them better, and only work in the way that will empower both of them (the service provider and the client). Also, I have noticed that many men want more connection with their erotic service provider. Many men also want to learn about Tantra. There are also many men, who want to deeper connection and enhanced erotic encounter with an erotic service provider, but don’t want a full-on Tantric teaching. These are all the possibilities of clientele an erotic service provider can help. Steven can help you learn new ways of connecting with your clients and how to attract your ideal clients. If I had a school of art of Geisha, I would definitely have Steven’s class as one of the top priorities!

-- Sayaka

Steven I just want to tell you that our Red session was one of the most profound healing sessions I have ever had, and I’ve had quite a few over the past 3 years. You have an amazing capacity to hold space and channel energy. You allowed me to go places I have never been, and I just can’t thank you enough. Truly, I can’t come up with the words.

-- Joy

I had the opportunity to work with Steven recently. His presence was calming and I felt very safe. I loved the way he held and moved his energy. I was entranced by his ability to project his chi through me. It filled me with energy that moved within me as I opened myself and surrendered to him. I was completely blissed out during our entire three hour session together. It is rare that I feel this comfortable with anyone upon our first meeting. Afterwards my heart and will chakras were warm, fuzzy, wide open. I felt full and revitalized from the love and strength he demonstrated with me. I recommend him if you are looking for a sensual, loving, moving experience.

Blessings,

-- Inanna

Since the moment I first saw Steven and Kypris, I knew there was something special about them. Their sensual and loving beings welcome everyone without judgment. As a sexologist, I was interested in Tantra, so I decided to work with them. My husband I were extremely comfortable in their presence, as they made sure that our boundaries will be honored and respected while an amazing teaching took place. Both of their soft voices put us into a deep meditative state, feeling connected to the source energy that was powerful and sensual. The session with them will always remain as a very special fond memory in my heart.

-- Sayaka

Dearest Steven,

Thank you for helping to create such a beautiful atmosphere tonight and for being so willing and open to connect. I feel so blissed out at the moment, and I owe so much of that to you and your ability to hold safe space for all of us. Thank you.

-- Jeana M

Steven Jay, thank you for your quiet, safe masculine energy you allow me to share in when we meet. Namaste

-- Laura Jean

Hello Steven & Kypris,

I just wanted to thank you for the gift of last night. The whole experience is still sinking into my awareness. Being made to feel so comfortable, safe and unconditionally loved was incredible. To be able to feel my body awaken and let me self consciousness slide away. I am on a great journey right now. Thank you so much for your part in helping me grow.

As we talked about last night Steven, I am feeling too full to really think or ‘understand.’ I am really enjoying just being! & of course looking forward to the future.

Kypris, thank you for preparing our delicious ’snack.’

Namaste,

-- Denise

Kypris and Steven were ever-respectful of my boundaries and were very present with me through the entire session. I felt very safe, and cared for. Most importantly I felt like I was being honored, as a woman, as myself. At times I felt like there were more than four hands massaging me! I was able to sink into such a state of relaxation, feeling at peace with myself and the world. It was a welcomed respite from the chaos in my life–which I have since been able to gain more perspective on. I was able to get more in touch with my body and discovered parts I need to pay more attention to, for healing. And I can’t put my finger on it, but my session has helped me to deal with stress more effectively and improve my love relationship–which is huge.
What can I say, Kypris and Steven working together are just… y u m m y! —

-- JB

When I met Steven I was in the midst of a deep training to discover the most essential part of being a woman. I was coming to grips with the knowledge that I had spent my entire life denying myself pleasure because I was holding on to old feelings of guilt and shame. When I met Steven I was profoundly struck by his ability to create a feeling of safety in me. I remember spending several hours at a party sitting next to him and feeling for the first time in my life the deep safety of a strong and healthy male presence. It was as if I was being held by a father who completely accepted all that I am. I felt safe, nurtured, and loved, even though I didn’t know him. As I did get to know Steven, I was struck by his healing touch—how he could put his hands on any part of my body that felt painful and help it to feel better. In lovemaking and tantric practice, I found that he had an intuitive sense of how to please me, and he has also taught me much about how to please a man. Working with him has brought deep release of the feelings that were keeping me from enjoying my sexuality as fully as I could, and the process of that healing continues to amaze me. I have recovered my ability to experience multiple orgasms and to ejaculate, as well as simply experiencing greater pleasure in the moments between those climaxes. I have learned how to relax into lovemaking instead of working so hard to feel a tiny bit of pleasure. Best of all, I have moved more and more into a complete feminine self-confidence and feeling of sexiness.

-- Kypris

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